Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Decorating Is So Relaxing For Me

Decorating Is Very Beneficial For Mental Health

I have never been someone who decorates much; my room is the same eggshell white that the real estate agent painted it nine years ago when we bought the house. Never has a teenage heartthrob or vampire graced my walls nor an inspirational picture of a kitten telling me to “just hang in there”. To me, my room was a place of functionality, a place to work and to sleep but not much else. The problem was that as a place of work it was not great at keeping me focused, I’d look up from my laptop and see stark walls, and my mind would become blank, my arms restless, and I would want to be anywhere but at my desk.


It was complete happenstance that I stumbled upon this poster when I did. I was doing a research project on computer scientist Grace Hopper and found an artist's rendition of the 16 greatest female scientists and inventors in history. It featured visionaries like Ada Lovelace the first computer programmer in the history of the world and Rosalind Franklin whose contributions to the discovery of the double helix went unrecognized until after her death. These women faced great discrimination but never wavered in their love of exploring the edge of human knowledge, simply because it was their passion especially when I'm looking for decorating inspiration.


I have never been one to request things for the holiday’s or even share my interests, but that year the only thing that I wanted was a copy of that poster. When I received it as a present, my parents went so far as to have it framed because they could tell how deeply it touched me. Now my walls may still be unbearably white, but in a place of prominence is that poster that I have spent more hours then I care to admit staring at and being moved by the strength and fortitude of the women who I admire.

Sunday, December 3, 2017

Why You Should Think About Adding Southwestern Rugs to Your Home

Why You  Should Think About Adding Southwestern Rugs to Your Home

Southwestern rugs are an amazing approach to draw out that well known western, natural or Native American feel in your home. Due to their developing notoriety, many home decorators are purchasing southwestern rugs on the web. Utilized as western complement rugs and furthermore southwest area rugs in the distinctive rooms all through your home or while enriching a lodge with a natural or western feel, southwestern rugs give your home that provincial interest and a positive genuine Native American look.

When obtaining Native American style rugs, you will discover numerous rugs to browse. These rugs have been a piece of Native American culture for a long time and are an excellent approach to bring that heritage into your home.


There are numerous well known styles of southwestern and western rugs that incorporate carefully assembled region rugs, soul rugs, Mexican Guadalupe rugs, Oaxaca Mexico rugs including Zapotec Indian rugs, Mohair and Navajo rugs. Each of these rugs come in assortment of hues and with various characters and delineations, symbolizing most profound sense of being and verifiable occasions. A decent case of this is enlivened in the Southwestern Spirit rug which contains a wide assortment of hues and plans. The profound characters utilized as a part of these rugs are made in an assortment of examples and structures that express the deep sense of being of the general population. 



Not exclusively are southwestern rugs appreciated for their unfathomable magnificence, yet the expertise and diligent work associated with making Native rugs and sprinters is likewise exceptionally noteworthy. The producers of hand woven fleece rugs are very gifted and star the rug making process by stooping before a vertical wooden-confined linger. The plans are then established by utilizing a bus to weave diverse shaded yarn together, making huge scale geometric characters and outlines. In the first place, Navajo rugs and in addition those of some other Southwest Indian clans were weaved of hand-spun cotton string. Be that as it may, after the fleece of local sheep was acquainted with the territory by the Spanish pilgrims, the general population principally utilized fleece to make their beautiful rugs and other conventional weaving.


Numerous, advanced southwestern rugs originate from regions of the nation where the Spanish and Native American societies have merged together. Southwest rugs, with their rich earth tone hues and conventional southwestern outlines settle on them an extraordinary decision for rural home enhancing. In the event that you are scanning for awesome south western rugs, you will no doubt buy from American organizations or straightforwardly from authentic Southwestern area rug weavers. Purchasing rugs from Navajo or other American Indian clans not just permits you the fulfillment of realizing that you have a rug that is woven by Indians yet in addition bolsters the Native American legacy of rug weaving, and the general population who themselves offer their rugs, covers, and Native American craftsmanship.


The rug you pick will emphatically rely upon what your tastes are and you designing needs. You will locate that southwest rugs are the ideal southwestern highlight when joined with rural or western home furniture. Regardless of whether you are enhancing one room in your home or brightening an entire house utilizing a southwestern topic, you will discover many outlines and hues accessible to browse. Among these choices you will have the capacity to browse Zapotec rugs with no two alike, to southwest table cloths and western embroidered works of art. Home decorators cherish hand woven rugs in light of the assortment of hues and surfaces. Whatever you're brightening style and whatever your home stylistic theme needs, you will appreciate the glow and shading made by enlivening with southwestern rugs.

Monday, August 14, 2017

Home Decor Tips With Concrete Dishes

I remember the reproduction of Albrecht Durer’s self-portrait leaned against the wall of our apartment in Rota, Spain when my mom was in the Navy.  I’d thought it strange we had all these pictures of ourselves yet to be developed; the ones that had been processed had been stowed away in shoeboxes in closets.  We had portraits of ancestors in scrapbooks, but this guy was in a large, gold-painted frame.  Even at six, I thought, What is so great about this guy?  I suppose that’s my earliest memory of being aware of the aesthetics of my surroundings.

And that’s how it always was with my parents.

Every place we ever lived in came across as a temporary place to crash.  I remember going to friends’ houses and thinking how wonderful it was to be in a home where the décor was intentional, rather than nonexistent or confused.  I can’t say I ever remember setting the table or making the bed.  I never even had chores.

Junk mail would stack up, and trash would be overflowing.  Laundry would pile up in a basket, and rather than be folded or put on hangers, we’d dig out our wrinkled clothes and toss them in the dryer for a few minutes before putting them on.  Our clean concrete dishes would stay in the dishwasher till we used them, only to collect in the sink till the next cycle, sometimes scraped, rarely rinsed.

At the Booker house, the bed sheets were always mismatched, because Dad was all about slopping it up to get it done, and Mom hated cooking housework, or anything remotely domestic.  My parents kept every plastic cup they got from fast food places, and Dad’s lists and statistics projects would fill up binders and gather dust, sometimes in a cardboard box in the bathroom.  The kitchen table would always be cluttered, so we’d just eat in front of the television because there was just nowhere to put anything.

So our house, even though it was of average size, always felt small.  Ironically, I never felt I had enough because we had too much.

This lack of pride in the home had a profound effect on me.  I rarely invited my friends over, so I often didn’t get invites.  I was ashamed of the house I lived in, and so when I married and rented a little cottage house, I would purge it monthly.  Clutter, for me, equaled chaos.

My husband never understood why it was so important to hang pictures in a timely manner, but empty walls, for me, represented the kind of home I was trying to get away from.  Negative wall space combined with no floor, table, or counterspace—that was my childhood home.

Family photographs, for me, have always been the hallmark of a happy, healthy home.  A lack of such gives a house the vibe of being staged for resale, and a lack of tidiness and cleanliness lends the impression that the occupants aren’t invested in themselves.

I despite the saying, “Messy House, Happy Kids.”  A home is meant to be lived in and cleaned up afterward.  There’s a George Foreman grill, coated with hamburger grease, that has been sitting for months.  My parents even turned me off ever owning a dog, because dog hair would mat up everywhere, and they would often poop on the carpet.  I was mortified the day a friend did come over (she insisted) and there was a giant log right as we walked in.  Though I didn’t hone any house cleaning habits as a child, I am becoming, through self-imposed discipline (and the desire to tamp down my husband’s superiority complex concerning the thing that’s next to godliness), what I was not brought up to be.

As for my dream house, my ideal design was a cross between my grandparents’ immaculate home in Poplar Bluff, Missouri, and a combination of Lucy Ricardo’s three homes featured in I Love Lucy.  It was nostalgia and childhood memories, rolled into one.

Grandpa and Grandma Booker’s house was the kind of home that felt right and good—the kind of place I could imagine living in myself.  In my own way, I’ve tried to recreate that feeling.  I have my grandmother’s vintage love seat that smells like wood smoke so that when I press my nose into it, it brings me back to when I was nine years old and life wasn’t so complicated.  I also have her Bavarian china hutch, which I like to say adds gravitas.  The copper Jell-O molds that hung in her kitchen now hang in mine, near my mint-green, I Love Lucy retro clock.  As a girl, I imagined these molds as fancy tables in some nightclub in the forties.  I know I like certain things only because they liked them first (such as Wedgwood blue china plates).  Had I inherited her home, I wouldn’t have changed anything, for everything had a memory attached to it.

I’ve often found myself looking for the same kind of wallpaper Grandma Booker had in her kitchen, even though it’s quite dated.  I’ve never found it, and I realize I cannot recreate the past, any more than I can predict the future.

The wall of our hallway is set up like a family tree and over the loveseat is a kitschy picture of a tree that, depending on where you’re standing, changes seasons.  It makes me think of something my grandmother would have had.  The rest of the frames showcase my own photography because I’m a big believer that what’s on your walls should mean something to you.
       
My daughter’s room will be a tribute to Minnie Mouse, for she loves all things, Minnie.  I want my home to feel like a safe space, even as my parents’ house felt so transient.

Sometimes, at twilight, I stand outside on our screened-in patio where I do my algebra homework, the amber glow of the lights inside illuminating the room while I watch my husband and daughter play on the carpet.  Even as my grandmother had many strategically-placed knickknacks, I’ve grown more minimalist over time.  To me, DVDs are clutter, but books are décor; I also don’t care for the television to be the focal point of the room.  It encourages everyone collectively looking at a screen instead of at each other.  I’ve also realized that not every space on the wall needs to be filled.  It’s all about the harmonization of positive and negative space working together to create balance.

With my parents, there was too much positive space on surfaces and too much negative on the walls.

        Décor isn’t just about the way a house looks, but the way it smells and the way it feels.  It’s the sum of all the parts adding up to something that feels like home.

Friday, July 21, 2017

Tales of the room

When I look around at the decor in my home I see my families story. I see the times we have struggled, the times we have prospered, the times we have lost, and most importantly the love we have gained through it all. The most important room to me in my home is where the treasure of my heart resides, my son’s room.

        From the moment that I found out I was pregnant I started thinking. Was I going to be a good mom? Was I going to have a boy or a girl? What was I going to name my child? I will never forget the moment that my husband and I found out that we were going to be having a boy. My husband jumped up out of his chair and thrusted his first into the air and then proclaimed that our new son’s room had to be sports.

        I knew from the start that my greatest responsibility for the rest of my life would be to help form the kind of person my son grew up to be. I wanted him to be strong, caring, adventurous, charitable, and of course loving. When my husband declared that the nursery had to be sports decor I knew that I could create a nest for my son that enveloped all that I wanted him to aspire to be. Above his crib we mounted the famous Babe Ruth quote “Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game”. Something that I have to remind myself of as I move through life. We hung pictures on the walls of my husband playing baseball as a youth, a picture painted of a San Diego Padres baseball by one of the most kindhearted people that I have ever had in my life, and a silly rally monkey signed by men who never gave up on their dreams. We set up a crib with blankets that were handmade by my great grandmother and now my son’s great grand mother. I snuck in bits of whimsy from a polkadot rug to pompoms on top of his dresser. When all was said in done I looked at a nursery full of hopes and dreams just waiting for an angel to come and make those wishes a reality.

        As my son grows and learns the tales of his room I hope that it leaves a lasting impression on him of the love that was created in that room and of the wondrous people that influenced his silly little artifacts. Decor matter because it is the story of our lives. It tells the people around us where we have been, who we have loved, and where we might just end up. I started the story for my son with a quote on a wall and love put into it.